Often the unsung hero of essential oils here in the US, Patchouli Essential oil has long been used in traditional Asian medicine. Patchouli is used to treat skin and hair problems (dermatitis, eczema, acne, dry chapped skin, dandruff, oily scalp, and is known to have wound healing and scar reducing properties).) Patchouli’s link to sexual desire likely originated from India, where it is used in Tantric sexual practices.
When you can send a Wonderful Scents diffuser so she can diffuse her own personal blend of essential oils all day, everyday, long after flowers would have died. Wonderful Scents has a variety of room diffusers, wearable diffusers, and car diffusers. If Mom is not into diffusing, a natural long lasting soy candle with a cotton or wood wick travel tin could be the answer.